The Receiving End of Sirens

Strangers on the news. Strangers in the park. Lurking at the grocery store. Following behind you in their cars. With your kids at the park. Each one unfamiliar, a potential for snatching your child at any moment. We’ve all heard the stories of strangers, and most of us have repeated such stories of caution to our children: don’t talk to strangers, never go anywhere with a stranger, and on and on. You’d think by now they’d surely get the message.Yet according to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, 7 out of 10 kids will still go with a stranger despite parental warnings. Individual tests done periodically by various news stations all over the country confirm such fears, repeatedly showing that some children will willingly wander off with complete strangers under some of the classic ploys an abductor may use. And it always hap hoodia chaser pens with the parents claiming beforehand that, surely, their child would never walk off with a stranger.The problem is not that kids can’t follow directions, but that they lack context for the instruction. Most parents tell their children not to talk to strangers, but provide little practical knowledge that can be applied to everyday situations. They may tell a child not to talk to strangers, but then proceed to carry on conversations with them themselves in supermarket lines. They may also tell a child to respond when a stranger at the store asks their name or inquires about their day. Of course, we the parents know the types of situations where strangers pose a potential danger. But we do a lousy job of conveying this knowledge to our children.As a result, the child ends up getting mixed messages, and lacks the context for the instructions.